50 pounds ago

So I would like to start by saying that I try very hard not to judge. I met someone for dinner the other night that I met online. Unfortunately, the pictures that I saw of her before we met were a minimum of 50 pounds ago and that is being generous. This story is more about the deception than her weight…so I’m not big girl shaming. However, why in the world would you not make that know before we met. Did she think that I wouldn’t notice? That maybe her personality would overcome? It didn’t.